Dear child, forgiveness is an intricate & delicate process that everyone goes through from time to time. When we forgive, we are in fact making a conscious & deliberate choice to let go of the entanglements between us & the other person or situation. Forgiveness is a process that takes time to complete & internalise. We should not be overzealous to allow our mind to dominate the need to forgive; we take time to allow the heart to be fully convinced that we are finally ready to forgive & commence our own healing.
Sometimes, we may feel resistance when we make attempts to forgive. Why should I be initiating the process of forgiveness? Isn’t it unfair that I have to forgive someone who caused me so much harm or pain, and remains unremorseful even till today? Why can’t I wait for the other person to reciprocate in the form of apology, expressing their remorse, or the like?
Do you know that when you are unable to forgive someone fully, it takes up a huge chunk of space energetically within you? Your heart becomes like a bursting closet, filled to the brim with suppressed & unresolved energies & emotions, to the point of suffocation. Do you know who really suffers when you are unable to forgive someone fully? Unfortunately, it is you, by choosing not to let go of the entanglements connecting you to the other person or memory lodged in the past.
Sometimes, we may feel injustice when we have to forgive someone. Why must it be me forgiving the other person, after all that the person has said or done to me? Why did God/Source/Universe allow all these injustice to take place? Why didn’t God/Source/Universe step in to correct all these injustice in the first place?
To which, we answer, we respect that this is a contract between souls for the learning process to unfold in this manner. It may not make sense for you right now, if you are completely immersed in the situation, and unable to step back & observe the greater learning involved. However, when we finally have the time & space to observe & reflect, we may sometimes discover the deeper messages waiting for us to internalise. Why did our soul choose to meet this person in this lifetime? What is the deeper purpose behind the person’s presence in our life, and vice versa? What should we do to master these lessons, so that we do not engage in repetitive behaviour that may draw us back to similar persons or situations?
If we are ready to forgive, what should we do?
We recommend for everyone to set aside uninterrupted time & space to reflect on the dynamics between you and the other person, how it unfolded from the start till today. Observing every memory as it unfolds, as if you are watching a movie. This time round, you’re no longer intricately involved as a main or supporting character in the movie; you’re merely an audience/outsider watching the past events unfold. Whenever you feel emotional or triggered by a certain memory, pause & journal it down. Allow yourself to fully process all the emotions that you had suppressed or were unresolved back then. Why do you feel emotional? What did the other person say or do? What were your expectations or beliefs held towards the other person? Allow yourself to relive any positive memories as well. Simply allowing everything to unfold as it is.
Importantly, do not feel embarrassed or ashamed by the seemingly “toxic” or “evil” thoughts, emotions & feelings on your part. When we journal down our genuine thoughts, emotions & feelings as they are, we are simply acknowledging them (instead of suppressing them), so that we may heal & release. To fully heal & release, we must be ready to close this chapter in our lives, by letting go of the entanglements between us & the other person. While the Akashic Masters can send energetic cutting of cords between you & the other person, you need to do your part to neutralise the connection, so that you don’t unconsciously or subconsciously rebuild those negative cords already removed.
Therefore, we encourage everyone to co-create with us in this healing journey of forgiveness. We are happy, ready & willing to support you energetically. However, for the forgiveness to seep into all levels of your being, you need to do your part with your reflections & journaling. Let’s mindfully create the space within us to embark on new beginnings!
Sending Love, Light & Blessings to All! 🤍
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